You’re here because maybe you want to experience a threesome, foursome, or maybe orgies. Maybe, you and your partner are planning to hook up with a third partner together. Maybe you fantasize about monogamous relationships and are curious about how to open up as a couple. What to do, how to do, when to do it, and how do you fuck them?
If all of this sounds familiar to you, you’re after group sex. This guide has been designed to help you.
Planning Helps
Before turning your fantasy into reality, mindfulness and planning are very helpful.
- What do you really want?
- Are you getting into the group sex for yourself or your loving partner?
- What do you expect out of it? Some expect a porn-like experience, while others look for a four-hand massage.
- Do you allow another guy to penetrate your wife or girlfriend?
- What about safe and hygienic sex?
- What are your boundaries around touching, kissing, cuddling, penetrative sex, BDSM, dirty talk, sharing a bed, etc.?
- How will you deal with that if someone or you become jealous and/or want to stop?
- What are your plans to check in after sex?
- Are you planning to include sex toys or love dolls in the game?
So, answer all these questions to yourself. The next step is to find a good partner.
Use Apps for a Threesome
A threesome not just promises love security, and it also lets you experience something new. You experience a whole new combination of gratification, lust, and ecstasy. A third person in the game means another pair of lips to kiss, another penis to stroke, and another pair of boobs to fondle.
But how do you find your suitable extra for enjoyable group sex? The easiest way is to do so is to search on a reliable app like Tinder, Feeld, SLS, to name a few. You can find a lot of potential partners on this app. Just connect with them and speak about a threesome, foursome, or gang-bang. Just anything you like!
Learn to Accept Things Happily
Please note that group sex may not go as well as in glossy porn movies. It can be messy and even painful. For example, your elbow hits a partner. You may even face FOMO at some point in time during the play. So, you need the flexibility of mind.
During group sex, you may experience emotional pain as well. Maybe, a husband wanted a threesome, but when his wife seems to be taken doggy-style, he may feel jealous. Maybe, a girlfriend finds that another girl in the game is connecting better. So, you have to be bold and accept everything with a grin.
What if you don’t accept? Don’t worry! You don’t need to be hard on yourself. In this case, you can get a silicone sexdoll – male or female – for your play. As a result, you don’t need to go through emotional turmoil.
Experiment
Well, there is no perfect way to enjoy group sex. Let yourself explore different styles during this. Then, based on this, decide what you like the most. Some ideas to do this experiment are:
- Check different sex positions for threesomes. Guide your partners into any desired position by saying, “how about you come here and do this.”
- Create a daisy chain to allow everyone to give and receive at the same time.
- Before you start, close your eyes and feel multiple mouths and hands all over your body.
- Don’t feel worried about fumbling.
Decide the Group Size
Think beforehand about the size and type of your group that you want to get involved with. Do you think you’ll feel better with one-on-one engagement? Do you want to join a threesome? Or maybe you want to be a part of a writhing mass of partners.
You can mix it up! That’s all up to you. To adjust your feeling of giving and receiving from multiple people, you should hook up with one person as you start. After that, move up to two, three, and however many you feel comfortable with.
Please note that group sex parties are often overwhelming. You can blow your load quickly. No matter whether or not you’re capable of multiple orgasms, it’s better to take enough time. Spend some time foreplay with a partner.
After that, up the ante with intercourse or oral penetration. Finally, go back to cuddling or watching after the climax. If you want, you can even trade-off between partners. Lots of changes will give the big night a nice flow and fun.
The Big Night Comes!
In the evening, mindfulness is vital for smooth group sex. Be mindful of everyone’s presence in the room. In this way, you won’t experience emotional hangovers the following morning.
Make sure that no one on the team feels left behind or FOMO emotionally or sexually. Make eye contact with every partner to put them and yourself at ease. You can, like other couples, also work out signals to let partners know that everything is going smoothly. You can also set signals when someone wants to stop in between.
In this way, every partner can feel comfortable and feel easy to explain their feelings. Just make sure that you always ask your partners whether or not they’re enjoying the group sex. After all, sex is always about relaxing, fun, and ultimate pleasure.
How about trying a sex doll?
A good option, by the way! If you’re a partner who wants to experience group sex but has a jealous partner, a silicone sex wife can do the job. Maybe, you want to be sure that you have a guilt-free threesome or a feeling like “I don’t want to betray my partner at all,” you can use lifelike love dolls.
Group sex with love dolls feels almost the same as making love with real partners. So, go for it if you can get a silicone sex doll. Moreover, the doll makes long-term partners and never says no to your wild, horny requests. So, you can have fun with her any time and all the time.
Hopefully, this group sex guide helps you achieve what you always fantasize about in your sex life. Have enjoyable and safe group sex!